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Do You Have A Favourite Dress?

Hello again everyone.

How are you all doing? Winter is slowly creeping up on us and I'm ok with it. I admit I like it better when I don't have to wear boots, tights, jeans and coats to keep warm, but it's something about it that makes me happy too.

But today I want to talk about dresses. And not just any dress. But my favourite dress. My favourite dress might not the nicest dress I own, nor the sexiest, but it's a dress that I wear at least a few times every week all year round! And the dress I'm talking about is this one!






 It's an old dress from Taking Shape that I bought at least 4 or 5 years ago and I have worn it so much. It's a great all rounder as it's so easy to just throw on if you're going to run some errands or if you're just going out for a quick drink or just lounging about it in your garden. I team it with leggings and boots in the winter as well when it's too cold to just wear it on its own.


Best of all this dress has pockets!!!! I love a dress with pockets and this dress has got pockets!!!


I love the colours of this dress and the print. It makes me happy to look at it and it goes together with so many other things I own. The shape of it is a classic shift dress so it falls really lovely over my big boobs as well so I feel it's a lovely and versatile dress for me.



Like I said, it might not be the prettiest dress I own, but it's definitely the most loved.

Do you have a dress like this that you wear all the time?



The Swimwear That Is Plain Sailing To Wear- Curvy Kate

 Curvy Kate has always had some really pretty designs when it comes to swimwear for us bigger boob women. When I was given the opportunity to review one of their newest designs I wasn't in doubt, it had to be the super cute Plain Sailing Tankini Ink Spot.





Isn't it gorgeous? I love the design as it is so girly and vintagey. Right up my street. I also love the colours as red and blue are my favourite colours.



This set is part of the mix and match swimwear collection so you can chose other styles like bikini top and mini brief.I chose this tankini with the skirted brief as they adds a bit of flirtiness to the set. I love how the little polka dots contrasts the bigger ones as well. 

 
Great high coverage at the back of the top and the skirt of the briefs are so cute. 


 When I first put this tankini on I was so pleasantly surprised that it had actual cups inside the fabric for more support. I had never had any swimwear that had cups built in. This is the way to go for swimwear for bigger busts. It gives you ease at mind that your girlies are actually secure and won't fall out.


The cups are made of a thin material which feels very delicate against you skin. The cups were too small for me in a size 40K, but that wasn't a big surprise as I always have to compromise with size. The back size is spot on and closes with normal bra hooks and makes it feel so secure. 

The tankini top is very comfortable to wear overall, but I wish that it came with wider straps. Cause as you can see they twist really easily. I also think that if the tankini came with wider straps it would give even more support. Especially in the bigger sizes as we need all the support we can from the weight of our heavy bust. 



 I love the big polka dots!!!



You can see the cute skirt of my briefs.

There are very useful ties to the side of the tankini top if you find the top a bit too long. And if you want more coverage you can adjust it to be longer. In addition the ties and the ruching adds an exciting design feature to the tankini. 



Swimming in this tankini was very pleasant. I felt that my boobs were secure and the briefs stayed up. I had chosen them in size 22 and they were actually a tad too big for me, so I would advice you to size down if you have narrower hips like I do. I like my briefs to be a bit tight as I like them to stay put while swimming, but these briefs stayed securely on throughout my entire swim (and I spend hours in the pool!!! I'm a mermaid!!). The straps didn't fall down even if they twisted so that was good. I didn't notice much of the straps at all when in the water. Just out of the water I wish they were bigger so they could give a bit more support.



The colours are so beautiful and nautical and perfect for a sunny holiday. 


Floaty skirt on my briefs are so cute and no wonder I was smiling cause this tankini made me feel so cute and pretty. No more boring black swimsuits when us bigger boobed women can indulge in fun and beautiful prints and styles like this. My 84 year old mother in law commented on how pretty the tankini were and said that it reminded her of swimwear from she was young, only prettier. So there you go Curvy Kate. Great work designing such cute swimwear, but think about adding wider straps in the bigger sizes next time for added support.

Have you tried any swimwear from Curvy Kate?

Xxx,



*this swimwear was gifted me of Curvy Kate, but all views are my own.

My Autumn Favourites From Shoetique

My love for ankle boots have come over the last few years when I started following my heart in what I liked instead of thinking that ankle boots would make my fat feet look shorter. We are being told so in what not to wear rules you can read everywhere and I think that is a fashion rule to break right there. I think that with a nice ankle boot you can give your outfit the little extra boost it needs and you can chose if you want to go for colours or more muted black, greys and brown.

I was browsing for shoes the other night and I came across this website called Shoetique. I found lots of inspiring models and I have chosen to share a few with you.

Hush Puppies Vivianna Red/ Rieker Black Boot
Heavenly Feet Annie Boots/ Rieker Wine Boot


I love all the berry tones at the moment. I think that these red colours are such a lovely colour in the autumn and winter as it brightens up an outfit without being too bright.

I also love these two black ones I've chosen as they have that little extra that makes them stand out. Feminine yet edgy and cool.

If I had to mention a brand that stand out to me it would be Rieker Boots. They have so many lovely everyday and more dressed up boots to chose from in some really good colours. They have boots in lots of different designs, some classic ankle boots and some more quirky. If you're looking for something a bit different, take a look in their section.

What are your favourite boots of the season?

Xxx 

Scarlett & Jo- The Competition I Won, And The Animal In Me

I was so lucky to win a competition on Facebook a couple of weeks ago where I could chose any dress I wanted from the Sample Sale at Scarlett & Jo. I couldn't believe it as it was such a surprise. It certainly made me cheered up in a time that has been and still are very challenging.

Scarlett & Jo had their sample sale at their offices in central London so I was lucky to get Mike to come with me up to London so I could go and pick out my dress and also look at the other goodies that was on offer for ridiculously low prices.

My good friend Mayah works for Scarlett & Jo so I had arranged with her to come up to the office a bit early to try it on as I had another event to go to the same day, but the train was delayed, so unfortunately so no early arrival for me. I met the lovely Gifi for the first time and that was such a pleasure. He is such an inspiring and lovely person. So genuine and easy going. He promised me a tour of the offices, but I had to take a rain check on that one till next month as I didn't have that much time. It was a shame as I would have loved to stayed on and chatted more. Hopefully I will have more time next time.

But I had time enough to browse through all the lovely dresses, skirts, tops and jackets that were in the Sample Sale and I chose this dress for my competition price. It's one of their lovely prom dresses. A shape and design I know suits me as I've got a few of them in my wardrobe already.

Photo courtesy of Scarlett&Jo on Instagram. 
While looking for which dress to choose, I saw so many nice ones that I wanted to buy, but I had to limit myself a little bit. I still went home with 4 dresses in total.



My prize and these three are now the newest Scarlett&Jo addition to my wardrobe and I can't wear to wear them all. I absolutely adore the animal print one. I've worn it several times already and it's so easy to wear and very flattering. It's made in a thin and ultra stretchy scuba material which feels amazing on your body.

I wore it out the other night when I went out for a drink with some friends and I got lots of compliments for it.

As I love yellow and the dress is monochrome I decided to team the dress with yellow accessories and shoes. It makes the whole outfit kind of pop. I love this outfit and I can't wait to wear this dress on my holiday to Spain. 

My shoes are from Evans and are the best footwear buy of the summer.I love the scalloped design and the peep toe. It's so cute. They are sold out online, but I managed to snap up both the yellow ones and the black ones as I know these shoes will be just as much of a go to shoe next summer and on my forthcoming holidays. My yellow bracelet is just a simple plastic pearl necklace I found in a charity shop for 25p. :) Handbag is from Yours Clothing and can be found HERE. 

I absolutely adore Scarlett & Jo and the people behind the brand. They really take in what us plus size women of all sizes really wants and I can't wait for their new collection that is coming out very very soon. It's diversity the way it should be. 

Ways To Make An Old Dress Into A New

Do you have an old dress in the back of your wardrobe that hasn't been used for ages and you're really bored of it? I was going to a family dinner on Sunday and I didn't feel like wearing a girly girl dress and I didn't feel for wearing trousers either. I just couldn't make my mind up. I saw this old maxi dress from Primark and thought why don't I just put a crop top over and see how that will work? And here is the final result.




I love this outfit. And I stayed comfortable all day. And I got compliments for my "dress" and people thought it was amazing that it was a dress with a top over. This dress is a size 18 from Primark, but it has a shirred bust and it's a stretchy jersey fabric, so it fits like a dream. If you are outside Primark's size range, you can still find many good fits for you as they have lots of nice dresses, tops, leggings and so on in stretchy materials and design that are flattering on us big girls too. Just dare to take a risk. With the top over it becomes so much more interesting. The crop top is from Forever 21 and has become a wardrobe favourite of mine. It's stretchy and easy wear. It goes with skirts, jeans, shorts and now also over a maxi dress. And it cost only £9!!!






Dress from Primark (old, but I'm sure you can find something similar in store)
Top from Forever 21 (HERE)
Shoes from Primark (old)
Earrings are a gift from my lovely husband
Bangle from Evans (HERE)
Alice band from eBay 



 

I thought the colours would clash, but for some reason I think they work. I also like that the stripes are different width's as I think it creates a more interesting outfit. 

I kept the accessories simple with a textured silver bangle and silver earrings. Nude shoes doesn't take the attention from the dress/top combo. 

What is your best tip to make a whole new outfit of two old items? 


Xxx 

#WeAreTheThey- PSBlogger Challenge

As you might know last Wednesday this time of the night a lot of us bloggers, plus size tweeters, instagramers and so on used social media to say what we really thought of Jamelia's statement on tv the day before as you can read in my post HERE. We were so many taking part in this lovely campaign started by Debz so that we trended in second place for the UK last week and the next day it was all over media. HERE is a post from The Mirror where I was featured.

With this blogging challenge we wanted to try and do something similar as we did last week, so hopefully a lot of you (plus size or skinny as Jamelia slagged everyone over a size 20 and under a size 6 off and it is just as bad to attack someone who struggle to put on weight or are natural very petite) will continue to use the hash tag and make a statement that it is not ok to segregate groups of people as segregation was abolished a long time ago, so why should it be ok to keep it up with people that are fat/very slim?

All my grown up life I have been fat! Ever since I was about 21 I have been over a size 18 and I remember when I lived in Norway I was following so called fashion rules religiously and didn't venture outside their boundaries. Thinking back now, this made me feel suppressed and clothes shopping was a task that was worse than going to the dentist having your tooth pulled out!! We didn't have much plus size clothing in Norway and with the fashion rules it wasn't much that was left for me to wear.

I have few photos of me from back then, but here are a couple







Quite boring and muted colours and shapes. And to be honest, I look so unhappy. I was confident in myself, but still I lived by rules that has no sense what so ever.

So therefore let us kill some of these rules once and for all!!

First of all I want to show WHY plus size people, slim people, in between people and actually anyone or anything that want to wear it, should wear COLOURS!







Colours are just automatically rising your spirits and making you happy. I love colours. I have always loved colours and the last 8 years of my life I have really embraced it and worn all the colours I have wanted to. And to be honest, I think colours makes me look more attactive!  And everyone can wear colours. Don't let yourself be fooled to think something else cause it is true. If you don't feel comfortable wearing a certain colour, try a different shade and you might be very pleasantly surprised. 

Next up is PATTERNS

So plus size people can't wear patterns because it directs the attention to your body? Well so what? Your body is an amazing machine that you should love and treat nicely so why not be proud and show it off. 









I love patterns. They make me stand out and makes me more edgy. I love playing around with different patterns around, although I need to be better at mixing patterns as I'm not daring enough, but I'm getting there! 


Another rule I followed everyday when I got dressed was to balance my top half with my bottom half as I'm top heavy. That meant no skinny jeans or knee high boots!! But don't you think that skinny jeans looks great on me? 






I think that jeans and jeans inside boots in the autumn and winter is a brilliant look. It's stylish and keep you warm without bothering me if it doesn't balance my body. I like it so I wear it!

Then over to the dreaded SHORT SHORTS. Now this is something I didn't even try to wear for more than 20 years!! Why why why??? Looking back at all the years I've suffered through too hot temperatures in fear of breaking the rules of what I as a bigger woman can wear. Especially when it looks so cool as this!






I even modelled shorts at Style XL last year without feeling uncomfortable.



I love shorts and in my upcoming holiday to Mexico I will be living in them!!! 

There are so many rules that you hear everywhere, so instead of listening to them listen to your own heart and wear what you want. Fashion should be fun and not run by fear of doing something wrong. Everyone has their own style and learn to show that instead of following a dictatorial list that someone else has made!!

Here are some of the other girls that are taking part in this challenge. Go check out what they are saying as well.




https://iwillnotwrapmyselfinsmocksandapologies.wordpress.com/

http://fabulouslyfatfashion.com/


Xxxx